As much as we enjoy going to swinger events and prefer this type of partying over any other, at times we take pleasure in attending vanilla clubs and bars. It’s more of a people watching thing for us and of course we keep our wit depending on the situation. It can especially fun if we meet someone who thinks they are the biggest, freakiest person around but freezes in the lightest lifestyle situation. We’ve never picked up anyone at the bar but have heard of it being done. That means we’re not the only open minded couple at the bar. The shock value can be both dangerous and very fun; we do very well adjusting to the situations. I guess sometimes you have to mix things up.