The best thing that most people want is for u to be honest with them and yourself. If they r doing something that bothers u then let them know. If u r looking for certain type of people be honest with them and say hey this is what we r looking for and not to affend u but we r not into this.
If u have any ?’s just ask me and i will try to help we r all here to help each other with what we can. happy to help