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Thread: Are you and your spouse a swinger?
 

 Feb 26, 2011 12:20:19 PM
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Are you and your spouse a swinger?
Ok a little interview for you and your partner. How can you allow someone you love to make love to someone else without feeling that they're cheating on you? Why do you do it? If you someday have kids, how do you think you will explain that when you're married do you only sleep with your spouse?


 Feb 26, 2011 05:30:44 AM
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We have been swinging for 10 years and married for 11 years. We have 2 beautiful children who goes to a private Christian school. We love each other and we love our family. With that being said...we only make love to each other and have "sex" with others.

There is a separation of making love and having sex. That is what people (men and women) who cheat do not get. They are not honest about how they feel so not only do they cheat on their spouse, but they lie too (disgusting). You do not think that the strip clubs are filled up with single males (and females) who are just their for good conversation and to drink milk shakes. These are married men who are looking for something that they are not getting at home. Fulfillment of sexual fantasies...we fulfill ours over and over and over and neither of us hurt each other in the process.

As far as telling our two children why they should remain faithful to one spouse is easy. It is right. Being faithful and truthful to your partner is RIGHT. That is not to say swinging is wrong because it absolutely isn't.

Just a lil fun fact: divorce data in the US, claiming the lack of quality of sex and spousal infidelity are significant factors in divorce. One study showed 37= of husbands and 29= of wives admit at least one extramarital affair (Reinisch, 1990), and divorce rates for first marriages approached 60=.

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