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Thread: Do swingers really have such great marriages like most of them claim or is that false justification?
 

 Mar 10, 2011 05:39:31 AM
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Do swingers really have such great marriages like most of them claim or is that false justification?
Most swingers boast about they have such great marriages where they totally trust each other


 Mar 10, 2011 05:51:34 AM
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Lifelong swingers who do it because they like their relationships that way and get off on watching their partners have sex have great marriages because they're living the life they prefer... not the life you'd prefer for them.

Monogamous couples who try swinging in order to fix something wrong in their relationship, or to "spice things up" are doomed to failure.

And none of them have to justify themselves to you, thanks.

 Mar 10, 2011 08:27:22 PM
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Question in response:
Have you asked ALL swingers and you have compiled all the data and have found that a minimum of 50.01% majority "boast" about how wonderful their marriages are?
There are many, many factors to consider in the "happiness" of ones marriage/relationship. For those who swing it brings an additional dynamic. This dynamic may bring with it additional issues but the benefits (not just the sex) may outweigh the new issues rendering them moot.
I have seen a significant degree of honesty in all matters in couples who play. This far and away includes matters other than just the sex. Honesty and open communication are hallmarks to a successful relationship according to EVERYONE who as ever written or spoken on the topic. That being the case, the sheer degree of honesty would be a contributing factor to the success of a "swinger" couple.

imo

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