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Thread: Why do people think swingers marriage is in trouble or will lead to devorce?
 

 Oct 25, 2011 07:39:28 AM
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Why do people think swingers marriage is in trouble or will lead to devorce?
All the true swingers are some of the happiest people I have met. It is true that people who try it to improve there sex life or help there marriage fail. Couples that are happy and honest with each other work well in the lifestyle.


 Oct 25, 2011 07:45:18 AM
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Too many people have trouble with that level of honesty. You have to really trust someone a lot to be that open with them. Most people are too scared of themselves to share that much with anyone, even their spouse.

 Oct 25, 2011 07:48:39 AM
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Because most people can't handle it. It might sound like a fun idea, but they find the reality confusing or painful. Or in some cases, one partner gets pressured into trying it and they end up making themselves miserable in an attempt to keep the other person happy. Yes, some couples are completely happy and satisfied with this lifestyle, but there are many more who crash and burn trying something that ought to be left a fantasy.

 Oct 25, 2011 07:49:37 AM
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People think that swinger marriages will fail.. because monogamy is the cornerstone of most marriages and people who stray in any form... (cheating, swinging,) are going outside their marriage for pleasure.. I wouldn't do it but whatever works.

 Oct 25, 2011 08:06:08 AM
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Oh really? Have you ever heard three (or more) is a crowd? Technically it should be the best of all possible worlds, the food on your plate and the ability to sample all the rest. Honesty is a good gauge for if swinging works. However, what happens when the three of more becomes two and it's not the husband and the wife (the primary couple)? Is it alright to progress from swinging to open marriage? What if the sample taste better than what's on your own plate? What happens when one member of the couple does not want to participate anymore and the other half does. In my opinion, the biggest problem is the assumption that other people (couples) are just as committed and dedicated to the lifestyle as you are. When people find something that they want, they don't always follow the rules and behave.

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