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Thread: Should you be force to play at a swinger party?

 May 04, 2010 06:49:13 PM
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Should you be force to play at a swinger party?
I recently saw the following posting on a swinger community, so I figured I'll ask you, what do you think?

"I have been wanting to address something to all the members of this group but especially those who throw parties. It is up to you to enforce rules or to even have rules at your parties. If people are still dressed after a certain hour and just looking at the action but have no intention on participating they should be kicked out or asked to pay again to stay and watch after a certain hour to make room for people who really have come to play. From my understanding this a swingers group and not a live porno movie. It bothers me when men are peter gazing and never grab a woman to play (real suspicious). Everybody doesn't come with the same intentions and it is up to the host to tell the difference and get rid of the down low dudes and girls who never play. Or at least give them their own room where they can stand around a look at each other stupid while the real swingers swing. Keep in mind I'm kinda new to this but it just seems like common sense to me especially if you're gonna charge me $50 to get in."

what you think?

 May 26, 2010 05:50:00 AM
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Forced to Play? This is going to be one of the very few times I will use this word when it comes to swinging, but my answer is Never. No one should ever be forced to play in any situation. I am sure there are many reasons why someone is just watching and just as many ways to handle each situation. The Host of each party has the responsibility before and during the party to handle if such a situation should arise.

 Aug 02, 2010 12:00:00 AM
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No because not only does it make it uncomfortable for everyone ... there's a chance that the participate may not want to get involved or even show at the next party

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