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 Nov 09, 2010 03:50:42 AM
Asked2Swingers
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what goes down in a swingers club?
friend invited me and my wife and we are verrrry curiouse :D
we are familiar with the swinger lifestyle but never been to a swingers club.
Details please!!


 Nov 09, 2010 11:37:29 AM
Lookyloo6943more
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depends on club and local enforcement laws in your particular state and city. Some allow partial nudity, some allow full nudity... some allow various forms of sexual contact. you will get your share of folks that are very outgoing and you have your wallflowers ( you'll remember those from high school , the guys that sit and watch all the pretty girls dancing but won't talk to any of them ) The biggest thing is if you two are social creatures you can meet lots of folks in that environment without the bar scene element ... so when you go make sure you have your bag of items and a couple of pens and pocket notebook to swap info with others that you like ...go have fun and explore

 Nov 09, 2010 01:47:47 AM
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Swing clubs differ in styles and activities as much as any other sort of club.
We have attended clubs that have huge dance floors, multiple bands playing all night, huge buffets, lounge areas, outdoor gardens, etc. and we have attended clubs that are nothing more than greeting rooms with play rooms attached.

As for what goes on it can range from light flirtatious attitudes and sexy dancing to "let's get it on" type situations depending on the club.
Ask your friends about the club they attend.
Some clubs are so low pressure you will hardly realize people are hooking up if you don't pay attention while other clubs have people that move so fast you will see nothing except sex withing an hour of the doors opening.

To get a smidgen of an idea maybe check out http://www.swingersabode.com/lifestyle/2010/09/rules-etiquette/ this page as it give generic advice on club etiquette , but always remember that all clubs are going to be different.

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