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Thread: are married swingers risky?
 

 Nov 29, 2010 02:15:48 AM
Asked2Swingers
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are married swingers risky?
Im married now but my wife is not into swinging so we dont do it but if something should happen and i re marry i would love to marry a woman who is also into swinging ,we would swing and have an open marriage wed go to the sex parties ,wed have some swinger parties ,wed go to the bar and bring home a woman for a 3 some ,she could bring home a a guy for her self and vice versa if i saw a girl i wanted id do the same wed go to hedo and have fun there too! of course wed use condoms
and we would have some rules no kissing on the lips and no oral without condoms and stuff and i would not do oral to a girl

we may even sell homemade porn films for extra income if she is into it so tell me if any of this lifestyle is dangerous or risky and how you would make it safer besides condoms at the end of the day we would come home to one another and be faithful to each other not wearing condoms.


 Nov 29, 2010 11:16:12 AM
Lookyloo6943more
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Wow I'm thinking you should leave swinging to fantasy... You are currently married and already speaking of divorce in a roundabout way. If you're not swinging getting a woman who swings will probably NOT help your self confidence when you don't get any action and she gets all the attention... and worse ( and You'll say no it won't happen ) if you hook up with a single male or couple that seems to get your NEW wife off you're probably gonna get really sensitive rather quickly... You are already placing rules on the new wife and we found that you make the rules up as you go... condums go without saying but understand rules get broken ... communication in any relationship is key to success... if you and your current wife no longer communicate ( short of fights and talking AT each other ) than maybe its time to part ways ... Home made pron is great but again if you are not part of the action and communication you will get sour on swinging ... it doesn't fix relationships if they are tenative .... be careful

 Nov 29, 2010 02:28:27 AM
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I believe that if you bring a 3rd party into your relationship there's always the risk of something going wrong, maybe im wrong but that's just my opinion.

 Nov 29, 2010 02:30:38 AM
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I wonder how your 'non swinging' wife would feel if she knew you were already thinking about your next wife.

 Nov 29, 2010 02:31:01 AM
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The dangerous thing is you want to have sex with other people and not happy with your mate. This is a very dangerous life style and will lead to a divorce, because at some point one of you is going to be upset because the other one is really into another person. I really don't think you should have gotten married, you are not ready to be a one on one person, and you will cheat, it is the writing on the wall.

 Dec 15, 2010 09:12:38 AM
Lookyloo6943more
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I answered this question 1st and it seems everyone thats answered so far is concerned with the marriage aspect lol yeah this one's gonna cheat ... but if you read thru his posting I'm thinking there alot of other stuff going on... not sure about troll comment ... maybe someone that has intimacy issues as well as communication issues ... but he won't find the answers he's looking for in swinging ...

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